Talking before Marriage →
Asalaam alaykum wa rahmatullaahi wa barakaatu My sisters gave me some marriage advice, and I think this will benefit all of us, in shaa Allaah. Even though talking to the one you’re planning for marriage with is enticing, riveting, and exhilarating, remember there is hikmah in everything Allaah ordained for us. One sister was telling me about her process, that throughout the entire thing they never spoke. If they did, it was through halaal means (through the Wali). And after their wedding, they would spend weeks just staying up all night and talking. Talking. Hours on end, laying in bed just talking to eachother, learning as much as they want to from eachother. SubhanaAllaah! How much do our hearts yearn for that, and how many times have we turned it down for the sake of Allaah? I know we want this, or atleast I know I do. I’m not trying to make anybody feel bad, I just want everybody to see the good in halaal. May Allaah rectify our deeds and attain us true happiness. Ameen :)
Awww, Ameen!
